Expectations (oh, and Welcome!)

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Expectation #1.  I never, ever expected to author a blog, and here I am.  My life is definitely not that exciting so I had no idea what I would/could ever write about that would garner attention (a fancy way of saying “who cares, lady?!”).  Now that we have that out of the way, we can move on to #2.

Expectation #2.   Realistically (honestly, truthfully, insanely), I thought Charles and I would be married for 5 years and then automatically (well, you know how it works) have a baby.  That was my plan, and things always go according to plan.  I never expected that we would struggle to conceive because I was naive, young, and healthy (AKA – I was “fat, dumb and happy”, as the expression goes).  Eventually, by God’s grace, and some medicinal aide, Charles and I DID conceive, and I truly wasn’t expecting that so quickly after starting a medication for just two weeks.  (So there are two “expectations” in #2, sorry.  I hope you’ll keep reading for the best expectation of all!)

Expectation #3.  Even though we had been trying to conceive, I still could not imagine holding that positive pregnancy test and calling my husband to tell him the good news.  (That is something you are never prepared for, no matter how many times you fantasize about it.)  So, hopefully you can tell by this point:  WE’RE PREGNANT!  Currently, we are 7 months pregnant with a baby girl.   

Expectation #4.  Through the grace of God, I (nor Charles) have ever had any major medical concerns.  (Charles had knee surgery once, but that’s about it.)  Thanks be to God for THAT!  I’ve always had routine Doctor appointments:  “Everything looks good.  See you next time.”  I mentioned being naive before, but I was not naive to the fact that a lot of things can be scary during a pregnancy (early on, my biggest concern was a miscarriage because that is actually a very real thing).  At the 12 week appointment to check on our baby, we had one of “those” appointments; something was concerning on the ultrasound that I would immediately need bloodwork to validate, plus a visit to a specialist to confirm what was seen at my OB’s office.  NOT EXPECTING THAT AT ALL.

Expectation #5.  Better late than never, I am welcoming you all to our blog!  I don’t actually expect anyone to read this, but for my own self-preservation, I need to get this out into the universe (well, the cyber universe).  Please see below for a few expectations you can have if you choose to go on this journey with me:

  • I am going to be honest about everything I write.  Consider that your warning 😉
  • I do not expect this blog to illicit sympathy from anyone.  We did not start this blog so that people would feel sorry for us. That said, we humbly ask for your prayers as you participate in our story.
  • I plan to provide as much information as possible, and I am happy to answer any and all questions.
  • I expect to honor my husband and my daughter by sharing our story with all of you.

36 thoughts on “Expectations (oh, and Welcome!)”

  1. So excited to be on this journey with y’all and love the blog. Continue to trust God in every step and know that you are covered in prayer. Love you Brittany, Chuck, and AJ.

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  3. So glad you began this blog. You did a beautiful job. Keeping you, Charles, and AngelAJ in my prayers. I love you so much. ❤️ Aunt Tammy

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  5. Our love and prayers are with you. We never know what the plan is or why things happen. We are here for anything you need. Much love to you, Charles, and AJ.

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  8. God bless you all. Britt, Charles & AJ know we love you all & you are all in our thoughts & prayers. Love Uncle Charlie & Auntie Elaine

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  9. Not a day goes by when you are not in our thoughts, our prayers, and our hearts. May you find comfort and peace knowing that you are not making this journey alone. We love you all. Aunt Sandy and Uncle George

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  10. Love you so much!! You, Charles and Baby AJ are in our prayers! Thank you for sharing this journey with us, and know that our little family will be praying for yours! Love you TONS!

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  15. Thank you for sharing your story. I’ve been thinking of you and keeping you all in my prayers. I am sending lots of love. Looking forward to following and loving you all on this journey.
    Big love to all.

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  16. Embrace your beautiful journey because this is your story and God has a plan for all 3 of you!! Every moment you have together is a true blessing!! Sending all of you hugs and prayers!!! With love, the Wohlleb family

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  17. This blog is so beautiful and heartfelt. You and Charles have such strong faith and that will keep you grounded for whatever the future holds. Jon and I are praying for you two and AJ. She is already blessed to have such awesome parents. We love you guys.

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  18. I vowel to fulfill my duties as a reader of your blog and friend that I will continually pray for your miracle daughter AJ! From the moment I learned of her she has been in my daily thoughts and prayers. Fighters like baby AJ change the world and bring people closer together for the greater good and show us God’s amazing love!!! I Love you and keep your hearts filled with expectation for The Lord is Good!

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  21. Jordan and I are thinking about you guys!! You are incredibly brave for sharing – but thank you for letting us participate in your journey. Much love to you, Charles and your little girl.

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  22. You and Charles are incredible people. I cannot imagine a better set of parents for this sweet baby. One day at a time. Love to you both

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  23. Thank you for sharing your story! My thoughts and prayers our with you and AJ! You and Charles are very special me! Love, Mom V

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  24. Dear Brittany Charles & little angel, Just wanted to tell you all we are praying for you and believing GOD every step of the way to do what only He can do. I know you will grow in your relationships with each other and with The Father GOD, HIs only SON Jesus & The Holy Spirit who will comfort you and give you HIS peace. Love to you all, Elaine & Eddie

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  28. You are in my thoughts and prayers always….both of you are such an inspiration and your faith will carry you. Love you all! Stephanie

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  30. Dear Brit, Charles and Baby AJ, you remain in our hearts, thoughts and daily prayers! We love you and send an abundance of prayers for peace, grace and strength from the Boston Abdelahad/Walls. Love has, Aunt Sharon and Uncle Fran

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  32. Brittany Thank you for letting us be a part of your Journey. You are a very talented writer. I’m not a big reader but I’m read ever word! Love the cliff hanger at the beginning. We are keeping you in our prays. Jamie Mackoul

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  33. We tell our kiddos often that ‘Life is a journey’ and ‘God gave us a range of emotions so we could feel life.’ We think both of these phrases work in your case. Your faith shines through your words. We are all hoping that God will answer our prayers. Prayers in abundance for you and yours.

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  34. Dear Brittany, Charles and AJ,
    Thanks for writing your blog so beautifully. You show such a wealth of a mother’s love for her child. We are praying daily for your 3 member family. With lots of love, Kathy & Allen Davis

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